Solutions for Everyday Life with Children


Do you sometimes worry about your child? Do you have a great kid who can be a challenge? Do you feel like you need a fresh approach? Being a parent is easier when you have good information and supportive advice. You'll find both in the questions and answers on this site about bringing up kids.

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Sunday
Sep252011

Our three year old is rough with our new baby. How can we stop him and protect her?

We need some ideas for handling our almost three year old Nicky and our new baby. He seems delighted with her, but he's so enthusiastic . . .

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Tuesday
May032011

I can't talk on the phone when my child is around!

Our three year old interrupts me whenever I try to make a call . . .

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Friday
Apr292011

Special Time: the best advice you'll ever get

If I had a magic wand for parents, it would be this: daily special time.

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Thursday
Feb172011

Our three year old is hitting other children!

Our three year old boy is a delight--most of the time. But more often than we like, he gets rough with us and his friends. He’s been known to hit, push, whack--you name it.

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Saturday
Jul172010

Our three-year-old is suddenly afraid to leave us

Our three-year-old used to be quite bold. In the past few months, however, we've noticed that he seems fearful in a lot of situations . . .

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Thursday
Jul152010

The first day of kindergarten

In just a few weeks, a new group of five-year-olds will be starting kindergarten, their first step into the world of "real school". Even when a child has been in group child care for many years, the threshold of the kindergarten door is a passageway to a new kind of relationship between the child and his teachers . . .

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Sunday
Jun062010

Our three-year-old keeps wetting his pants!

Our son Max is three. He has been toilet trained for months. He uses the potty or the toilet at home and at pre-school with hardly any help. But anywhere else he almost always wets his pants . . .

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Sunday
Jun062010

Should we let our child suck her thumb?

Our three-year-old Jamie is sweet and bright and pretty. Her only “flaw” is that in between playing or talking or running around, she’s likely to be sitting somewhere sucking her thumb. . .

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Sunday
Apr042010

I get so angry at my kids . . . what to do?

Sometimes I don’t know who gets angrier—me or my three-year-old! At first I might be nice, then I get irritated, then I explode!

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Tuesday
Feb162010

Is my child going to be ready for kindergarten?

My neighbor just told me that after three months of kindergarten, her son has been identified as “at risk” for passing! Now I'm worried about my own child . . .

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Tuesday
Feb092010

I am so tired of struggling with my children. 

I am so tired of struggling with my children. I know there aren't magic wands for parents, but isn't there any way to make life a little easier?

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Wednesday
Oct282009

What should I do when other kids are rude?

When I take my three-year-old to a park or a special place--like a kids' museum--I try to make him behave just the way he would at school or at home. But what about other people's kids? If they grab things out of my child's hands…

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Wednesday
Oct282009

Our four-year-olds are so fussy about what they wear

Help! Every four year old I know has a problem with clothes--mine won't wear anything but sweat pants, his best friend has to wear green, and the girl next door wants to try on her idea of cute outfits every morning while we're waiting…

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Wednesday
Oct282009

How can we make blood tests easier for our child?

Our three year old has a medical condition that will require him to have a number of visits to his doctor’s office and the hospital outpatient clinics. He has had, and will have, lots of procedures and exams and we are dreading it…

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Wednesday
Oct282009

How do you stop a child’s whining?

Our four year old little daughter Henrietta has developed a very irritating, whiny way of talking to us. It's driving us nuts--we keep telling her to stop, and we try to ignore her or tell her to ask us in a pleasant voice, but she doesn't stop…

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Wednesday
Oct282009

How can we explain death to our child?

In the past year several people close to us have died. We have a three-year-old son who has started to ask us if we are going to die and whether he is going to die. We have tried to avoid burdening him with the problems of adult life…

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Wednesday
Oct282009

Our three year old has started to stutter 

Our three-year-old daughter Katie has begun to stutter. Up until now she's been very clear in her speech. She stutters the most when she's excited or trying to explain something to us. She'll say, "I saw . . .I saw . . .I saw . .", then pause, and then start again…

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Wednesday
Oct282009

Our daughter has stopped pooping everyday 

Our daughter Claire is four and has been toilet trained for over a year. However, she only likes to have a bowel movement at home. At first, this wasn't a problem. Then we started noticing that if we were away from home at her usual time…

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Tuesday
Oct202009

What are Sensory Integration Problems?

We have a delightful, high energy four year old boy who has always been a handful , but we’ve never worried that there was anything the matter—we just figured that he was one of those kids who had lots of energy…

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Tuesday
Sep292009

Pre-school Birthday Parties

Our wonderful son is going to turn three years old this summer, and I am already dreading the date. Well, not the date of his birthday, but the date of the party. It’s not that I don’t want to celebrate, but I don’t think I’m up to…

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